Jasper

2026 Melbourne Sunday 6th December | 20 Hours For 20Talk

Jasper is taking on the 20-hour challenge to support youth mental health and raise awareness about the importance of prevention.

In memory of my sister

Esmé Matilda Nagle Caverly
28/09/1999 - 22/05/2025
25 years old

On December 6th, I am going to sit in a 2x2 meter square in total silence for 20 hours in memory of my sister.

Last year our family suddenly lost its youngest member. The shock of her death echoes in the quiet left behind. Parents are should not have to bury their children, and siblings are not supposed to become only-children in their 20s. Her inconceivable absence is felt at every moment.

Esmé and I had relationship that - as most siblings do - had as many ups as there were downs. Memory becomes a cruel ghost when your loved ones pass and memory is often falsified by time: rewritten for self-protection. 

For every stupid fight there is also uncontrollable laughter, for every moment of shared embarrassment a moment of pride. We grew, we resolved, learned and endured together. I only wish it could have been for much, much longer.

When someone in your life has lived with complex mental health barriers (to the extent of consistent treatment over repeated years) you become a temporary expert in damage control. You follow up on missed calls as if they were an emergency, you know what to pack in a suitcase for indefinite amount of time, and you know how to speak to the right people at a hospital. Every small concern is a potential catastrophe, a seemingly banal request a possible lifeline and any unknown is an assumption of the worst possible news. 

The afterward-ness of Esmé’s death felt and sometimes still feels like collective failure of the health system, our community and our family to protect her from harm. The weight of saying this out loud cannot be understated. We are all plagued by the same question: “What if…?”
 
The money raised from this targets youth mental health, including support programs with a focus on suicide prevention. I’ve set my initial fundraising target for $1000, which I will increase by a further $1000 each time the goal is reached. 

20 Hours of Silence for Youth Mental Health.

I’m taking on the 20 Hours for 20Talk Challenge which will see me sitting in a 2×2 metre square in a warehouse, alongside 400 other participants, with no talking and no technology for 20 hours. All I’ll have are the essentials I bring with me: a chair, sleeping mat, journal, water, and food. No distractions.

This challenge is a small glimpse into the isolation and struggle that someone with mental health challenges might feel every day. I know it will be tough - physically, mentally, and emotionally - but it’s a challenge I’m taking on to stand in solidarity with those navigating these experiences.

So why am I doing this?
We have all been touched in some way by the reality of mental health. It can be dark, lonely, and confronting.

Structurally, the statistics are still alarming:
- Suicide remains the leading cause of death for young people aged 15-44.
- Only 2% of mental health funding goes towards prevention (Mental Health Commission 2022).

I’m completing the 20 Hours for 20Talk Challenge to help turn these statistics around. Your contribution goes towards 20Talk’s relatable prevention campaigns. They are a mental health charity that makes education cool and accessible, for young people by young people. Your generous donations go towards:

- Every $120 puts a young person through a one-day Mental Health Maintenance course
- Expanding 20Talk’s online resources and 60,000+ social media community
- Running large-scale interactive mental health events'

What is Mental Health Maintenance?
Mental Health Maintence (MHM) is a free, one-day workshop designed with industry experts to help individuals better understand and engage with different areas of their wellbeing, as well as learn effective ways to monitor them. MHM is designed to support people by equippig them with the knowledge and tools to maintai their mental wellbeing before reaching crisis point. By improving mental health literacy, removing harmful stigma, and encouraging professional help-seeking, this workshop hopes to prevent people from reaching crisis in the first place. To learn more, please visit www.20talk.com.au.


Thank you so much for taking the time to read this and for donating to the cause. Hopefully this small challenge can help change someone’s life.
If you ever need to chat, I’m always here. Love you all and thanks again!

My Achievements

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Received 5 Donations

Reached Goal

Thank you to my Sponsors

$216.50

D And K Trevor-jones

Sending you a big hug and lots of love.

$106.75

Margaret Wiles

Thank you for your determination and courage to honour your sister Esmé.

$106.75

Sarah Scarra

Sending love

$106.75

Lauren Hunter

Thinking of you and your family ❤️ Such an important cause. Sending lots of love and support for the 20 hours x

$106.75

Heidi Mccarthy -huxley

Such a lovely idea xx

$106.75

Reef Williams

$106.75

Deri-anne And Tim Wyatt

Hi Jas, this is such a worthy and urgent cause. You, Ro & Esmè are constantly in our hearts. XX

$106.75

Warren & Sue

$106.75

Felix

Incredibly proud of you for taking this on

$105.55

Jess Maitland

You’re amazing xx

$82.13

Nathan Retmock

$55.95

Angie And Amanda

Great thing you are doing my friend. Very proud of you and your kindness for others.

$55.95

Madison Murphy

$55.95

Issy Wadley

Love to you Jasper

$55.95

Timothy Smith

<3

$55.95

Grace Tan

🤍Sending lots of love. Here if you ever want to chat. A cause close to home for me too x

$55.95

Nicole Fletcher

so much love !!!!💙

$55.95

Jane Andary

Sending love xx

$55.95

Sarah Z.

sending much love to you and your family!

$55.95

Ian Derry

Great effort to raise awareness Jasper. Best wishes to you and your mum x

$55.95

Lincoln Johnston

$55.95

Nyssa Mitchell

$55.95

Aja Hosking

Love you x

$55.95

Pernell Marsden

For Esmé x

$55.95

Lucien Perry

$55.95

Kiloran Hiscock

<3

$55.95

India Gauge

$54.75

Samadhi

$54.75

Mia

Love you so much

$54.75

Joe

❤️

$50

Molly Macdougald

Proud of you, always sending my love

$50

Raj D

Love you Cav xx

$50

Stella Mccarthy-huxlry

$50

Kiarna Ryan

$50

Bradley

$50

Isaac Bowen

$50

Anonymous

💗

$45.30

Devon Lang Wilton

All my love my friend

$35

J.s

Love you legend 🩷

$34.40

Mia Sharratt

❤️

$28.81

Jessika

$28.81

Harry Maslen

Love ya mate

$28.81

Alex Nesic

$28.81

Mj Kim

$28.81

Mj Kim

$28.81

Riley Deacon

$28.81

Jane Dale

$28.81

Jasper

$28.81

Sarah Palmieri

Amazing work Jasper 🫶🏽 big love to you and your family

$28.81

Tan Hewa

$28.81

Camille Wiseman

$28.81

Isabelle Andary-geslin

$28.81

Anonymous

$28.81

Georgina Wills

Get it king

$28.81

Amber

Amazing thing to do - always thinking of Esme x

$28.21

Laura Apelt

$25

Giulia Kelly

$25

Paris Astley

$23.81

Viv Baker

$23.81

Grace Lee

$20

Anonymous

$20

Erin M

$20

George Samios

Love you twin

$17.87

Anonymous

“You might think you are one unit but loss will show you that your edges were always a joint effort.” may you sit well, knowing there are many beside you. i am sorry for your loss, and for the systemic gaps that too many of us know intimately. may you think of those here, before and in the future, as collective edges of support and understanding.

$17.87

Anonymous

$15

Anonymous

$15

Bridie

$15

Isabella

$10

An Dang

$10

Sarah Hegge-taylor

Sorry for I am naught but a poor person, however I am very proud of you! Love Boss xoxo

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